Are you thinking of popping the question? Then it goes without saying that you already know the importance of getting the marriage proposal just right. But what exactly does 'getting it right' mean and is there any such thing as the perfect marriage proposal?
Yes. And no.
The perfect proposal is different for each and every couple. Getting it just right means creating a special moment that takes into account what both parties want and would appreciate. It depends on you and your partner to create a moment that is truly unique and memorable for all the right reasons. So how can you create the perfect proposal for you?
Be Yourself
Remember that the person you are proposing to fell in love with you. Make your proposal authentic to you and try to be yourself. Ignore the small details and try not to get too focussed on 'getting it perfect.' This will only make the whole thing more stressful.
Personalize It
Make your proposal as much as about your and your loved one as possible. Try to focus on something you both love in an environment that works for you both to help create the best atmosphere possible. The more relaxed you both feel, the easier this will be. Are you both homebodies? If so, then a grand public gesture probably isn't the way to go. Base your proposal on your personalities and activities you both enjoy.
Don't Go It Alone
To plan a complete surprise, you will need help. Whether to cover you as you prepare the proposal, get your other half out of the way, or provide help picking the right ring and location, choose someone you trust to keep a secret and help you out in a way that doesn't raise suspicion.
Plan Ahead of Time
Allow yourself time to make it happen in a non-forced way. You want the event to be natural and feel right. So make sure to allow yourself time so you don't spend the day rushing and becoming overwhelmed. So buy the ring—diamond engagement rings are a classic option and timeless. Have it sized if need be and delivered before you make plans for the proposal day. Then make arrangements for the proposal itself. Make sure to allow yourself time to relax and get ready beforehand—especially if you have to work or have other commitments you need to fulfil.
Document the Day
We've all seen many people share their elaborate proposals online. From the man who proposed every day for a year to the one who dropped the ring in a waterfall, some are amazingly beautiful proposals and some are complete disasters.
One thing this has shown us is that you want to treasure this memory for a long time. Chances are, you will be too caught up in your nerves to fully appreciate it; and once it is over, you will need a more permanent reminder. Getting it filmed or photographed is the best way to do this.
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